Indeed it may be believed that this particular type of attitude has a peculiarly broad presence throughout society in general. The reasons for it may range from feelings of inadequacy, all the way to events of the past, which may have had a detrimental effect on a person's behaviour. Shyness does not develop at its core through a lack of self esteem, more likely it recoils from a fear of being judged. 
The secret mainly relies on a person’s ability to address this issue and have it play in his favour.
For that manner, shy guys will develop different traits to be able to express their feelings far from any traditional idea. With this, they will achieve to steer clear from being judged.
One may then ask, in what way can the mind of a shy person be deciphered? The answer is body language. What he does with his hands the whole time, his posture, and the way he is seated are some of the things which may give out an idea of the type of person he really is. It may be that to this specific type of personality, this unspoken language is less accentuated, but if attention is paid closely, details may actually reveal the mind behind the mask.
The fact of the matter is, shy guys simply don't talk that much and it is easier to judge someone when he has a lot to say. Using words only when they are truly necessary, may give people the idea, in some cases, that they are good listeners. An impression that may help, when in conversation with women, if besides being shy he is witty, to ignite chemistry.
In fact, this type of identity is not something males in general occasionally strive for. Usually what they look for is being the confident type who is mostly fearless. The only problem being, that sometimes if shy people try to act out being tough, or any of the other male archetypes, it may turn out disfavorable. For the simple reason that when someone looks as if he is trying too hard, he creates the complete opposite effect of what he is trying to act out.
