In real life, a person may lack being attractive. He may even fall short in certain aspects of style and fashion. But, if he is the bearer of the highly regarded trait of being charming, he may not be lacking anything at all. For it is through this mannerism that many achieve what others only dream of.
You may think that I may be giving more credit to this feature than what it actually deserves, but I can assure you that if you think like that, it is because you have not met what someone charming really is.
Follow these steps, which people with this attribute share, so that you can adjust in your personality as well:
- Smile with your eyes
- Remember people's names
- Be genuinely interested in people you meet
- Praise others instead of gossiping
- Issue compliments, especially to raise others' self esteem
- Control your tone of voice
The following clip comes from the french movie Hors de Prix. In this scene Irene (Audrey Tautou) is asking Jean (Gad Elmaleh) to give her his best representation of someone charming. As he fails, she ensues by teaching him how it's really done.
If you enjoy the romantic comedy genre, I highly recommend this movie. You can learn a thing or two about it.
