Top 10 Things You Need to Know When Approaching a Woman for the First Time

Via bloddroppe
Imagine you are in a social context and you see the most ravishing woman you have ever seen. She might very easily be the woman you have dreamt of all your life. You want to gather enough courage to go up to her and talk, but don't know how exactly. Here we have developed a list of 10 of the most important things you need to know when approaching women for the first time. Using them will help you achieve a window of opportunities.
  1. Take Sex Out of Your Head
    1. Or at least move it to the back of it. For women, there's nothing worse than being talked to by a guy that is asking lame questions and is staring at her lustfully. When you are no longer thinking about sex, you make way to being genuinely interested in what a woman has to say, and there is no other thing women enjoy the most than being listened to geniuenly.  
  2. Have in Mind Key Questions to Induce Conversation
    1. I am not saying have all the conversation planned out, because that would be impossible. What I am saying, is that when you approach a woman and you stand there silently, while thinking of what to say next, you may come off as if you lack the confidence to ask the right questions. 
  3. Take a Moment to Analyze Her For "Insignificant" Details
    1. Look at the people she is with and how she interacts with them. Her body language and the way she is dressed may tell you a lot more than you think. Read our Psychology section for a better insight on this topic.
  4. Groups of Three or More are Better Than a Couple of Women
    1. If you go up to a couple of women and only talk to one of them, it may come off as a rude approach, as you are excluding the other person from the conversation. If you must go up to a couple, then you must address them both, only be sure to look at the woman you like differently. For example, make longer lapses of eye contact.  
  5. Be Witty
    1. Yes, I know, easier said than done, but the best way to improve this quality is with practice. The more you talk with new people, the better you become.
  6. If You Get a Chance to Make Her Laugh, Take it!
    1. Laughter relieves stress and physical tension. It also triggers the release of endorphins, which are chemicals that promote an overall sense of well-being. If you can give all that to a woman, why wouldn't you?
  7. Make Eye Contact
    1. Behavioral psychologist have found that a one part to three mix of looking at a woman and looking away was an optimal balance between signals of interest and an uncomfortable stare. An overly focused gaze can disturb anyone and may reduce your charm.
  8. Mind Your Body Language
    1. "The total impact of a message is about 7% verbal (just words), 38% vocal (includes tone of voice, inflection, and other sounds), and 55% non-verbal." 
  9. Don't think About it Too Much
    1. Talking to a woman for the first time is like jumping in really cold water for the first time. If you think about it too much, you might not end up doing it. Don't hesitate and know for sure that diving is a lot better than going in slowly. Once you are inside you'll notice the water isn't that unbearable. 
  10. Never Be Drunk
    1. And last, but not least if you've had too much to drink, know for sure that your probabilites of success decrease dramatically if you lack the practice in this realm of social interaction. Have one or two of your favorite choice to liven yourself up and relax, not to get drunk. 
Via gnato
Have in mind that this post is about approaching women. Some men prefer to be the ones that are approached, but that really isn't our thing here. We believe that The Perfect Male Blog is more about taking the rheins of your life and guiding it exactly where you want it to go, rather than waiting for things to happen to you by chance. Now, this list applies to any environment excluding those which conversation is hindered, like a concert or club. Feel free to add your own to enhance the value of this post.
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